- How much I’d Recommend: 10/10
- Date finished: 7/3/19
- How to Fail at Almost Everything and Still Win Big, recommend purchasing and keeping for future reference 🙂
Scott Adams’ book about how to win at life is pretty hilarious. Maybe it is because he is the creator of Dilbert and have mastered sarcasm. It was a page-turner. He had a lot of lessons learned through his life and career.
Three things that really stuck out for me:
1. Goals vs. Systems
He explained that one should not just have goals, but we should have systems to repeatedly able to do something. It almost seems like he’s saying having a goal makes a glass ceiling for you, that you will stop once this “goal” was achieved. Instead, we should have a system where we are working towards this goal, and stick to this “system” which will be foolproof. This made me think about my friend Daniel’s Youtube Channel “goal.” His goal was to be able to document interesting people’s lives around him. He should also have a “system” which prevents him from procrastinating and sending the video out immediately after he shoots it.
2. Deciding vs. Wanting
If you want success, figure out the price, then pay it. Deciding to succeed is so much different than just “wanting” to succeed. This makes me think of all the bad times and bad moods I have. Deciding to be happy is different than “wanting” to be happy.
3. Pick a delusion that works
“My main point about perception is that you shouldn’t hesitate to modify your perceptions to whatever makes you happy, because you are probably wrong about the underlying nature of reality anyway.”
“Free yourself from the shackles of an oppressive reality. What’s real to you is what you imagine and what you feel. If you manage your illusions wisely, you might get what you want, but you won’t necessarily understand why it worked.”
Some book notes:
- Good + Good > excellent : you are better off being good at two complementary skills than being excellent at one.
- Wow, that was brave. Dale Carnegie class
- Psychological and cognitive biases
- Cut out unnecessary words for business writing
- Rule of three for designing
- The point of a conversation is to make the other person feel good
- Imagine a specific confident person you know, and do bad impression of him/her to overcome shyness
- Research shows that people will automatically label you a friend if you share a secret
- Use affirmation
- Experts are 50% right on anything that is unusually complicated, mysterious, or even new
- Association programming – simply find the people who most represent what you would like to become and spend as much time with them as you can without trespassing, kidnapping, or stalking.
- Happiness formula: eat right, exercise, get enough sleep, imagine an incredible future, work towards flexible schedule, do things you can steadily improve at, help others, reduce daily decisions to routine.
- Pay attention to your energy level after eating certain foods; find your pattern